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Welcome to the ninth day of the National Health Blog Post Month hosted by WEGO Health.    Every day during the month of November I will be writing a new blog post related to health and living with a chronic illness based on given prompts provided by WEGO Health.

Today’s prompt reads…

Just admit it: It’s taboo, write about something that people do but don’t like to talk about or won’t admit to doing.  Don’t worry we won’t tell anyone 😉

Okay, so I am going to divulge a big secret of mine.  I suffer from a condition called trichotillomania.  Trichotillomania is the compulsion urge to pull out one’s own hair.  I have suffered from this condition since my early teens, and is not something I admit to doing or have even discussed with anyone.  You see, ever since my early teens; when the dizziness started getting much more frequent and intense, and as a result it triggered an anxiety disorder.  At the same time, I was going through a hard time at school, where I was bullied and ostracised by my peers.  As someone who rarely talks about what is on their mind, or problems and instead bottles them up, I found comfort and relief from plucking hairs from my legs, arms or eyebrows.  At this time, I didn’t know what was happening; I was finding it so difficult to cope with both the dizziness, anxiety and depression that I was suffering, and I had no other coping mechanisms that I developed this compulsion to pull my own hair out.

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My hair is very fine, so I couldn’t pull hair from my head as people would soon notice, so I began pulling hairs from my arms, legs and eyebrows.  It’s my shameful secret – I still do it sometimes now when I am struggling with my condition and during difficult times where I am finding it difficult to cope.

This condition is very common, usually amongst teenagers and young adults, and also more common in girls than boys.  However, it is often a taboo subject and not often talked about.  Perhaps as it often also causes guilt and shame amongst sufferers of trichotillomania.  I know that guilt is something that I feel after I have pulled hairs out for a period of time.

I hope that perhaps by sharing my secret and opening up about my compulsion to pull my hair out will help people who may be doing the same thing.  For support, you can try these websites that provide further information:

US – Trichotillomania Learning Centre: http://www.trich.org/

UK – Trichotillomania Support Online – http://www.trichotillomania.co.uk/index.html

Trichotillomania Support on Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/TrichotillomaniaSupport

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Welcome to the eighth day of the National Health Blog Post Month Challenge hosted by WEGO Health.  Every day during the month of November I will be writing a new blog post related to health and living with a chronic illness based upon given prompts provided by WEGO Health.

Today’s prompt reads:

Favourite Fridays.  Make a list of 3 favourite quotes

I absolutely adore this prompt as I am a lover of positive quotations; they are uplifting and a lovely reminder of what good there is still in the world when illness seems to get in the way of enjoying life.  In fact, I am such a lover of such positive quotes that I have started my own positivity board in my bedroom which has some positive quotes, which I love.  So, what are my 3 favourite quotes?

My Top 3 favourite quotes:

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And here is my 'Positivity Board'
And here is my ‘Positivity Board’

 

 

What are your favourite quotes?  Fee free to comment below…

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Welcome to the seventh day of the National Health Blog Post Month Challenge hosted by WEGO Health.  Every day during the month of November I will be writing a new blog post related to health and living with a chronic illness based upon given prompts provided by WEGO Health.

Today’s prompt reads:

Mary Poppins Carpet Bag: Write about what’s in your bag/purse/backpack every day and why!

This prompts come on a day where I have a hospital appointment – this afternoon I have a specialist appointment with a consultant in Audiovestibular Medicine.  So, given today’s prompt I decided to change it slightly and instead write about everything that I have in my bag when I attend various hospital appointments.  I don’t know about you, but I tend to get anxious and jittery attending hospital appointments, even after so many visits!  So I like to have plenty in my bag to keep me occupied and distracted when waiting to see the doctor.  Sitting in a hospital waiting room is in itself a waiting game.  So here is the run down on what I keep in my bag for appointment days:

  • The appointment letter: Very important to take this as obviously it contains all the vital information regarding the appointment such as the location, time and the doctor you are seeing.  More often than not the receptionist checks the letter for your information so is important to take the appointment letter with you to the hospital
  • Other Medical Information: At appointments they always ask you for certain information such as the frequency of the symptoms; medications you are taking; questions about medical history so I would advise to keep a notebook with all of this information written down in it, to take with you to such appointments
  • Puzzle Books: I have a couple of puzzle books, with Sudoku puzzles and crossword puzzles in them.  I usually get these out of my comfort box when I am stuck in bed as they help distract me from the pain and dizziness as well as help pass the time away, so often will take a book or two to complete whilst I am waiting.
  • Mobile Phone and iPad: Obviously, I am not able to make or receive calls whilst at the hospital but the phone itself becomes an entertainment centre, with everything I need to occupy me during the often long wait to been seen by the consultant.  With the phone I am able to check Facebook and Twitter, exchange messages with friends to help me through the anxiety, and also play different games to distract me from the dizziness.  The iPad enables me to listen to music or even watch a favourite film or television programme to make waiting much more enjoyable!
  • My ‘Little Book of Strength; – I am a big fan of the ‘Itty Bitty Book Company’.  They are a small company who sell handmade little book of quotes whether it be motivational quotes, positive quotes or quotes to gain strength from.  They also come with coloured beads attached to them, which make them really beautiful little gifts and keepsakes.  I love the ‘Itty Bitty Book of Strength’ and read all of the positive quotes when I am struggling because of my condition or just having a bad day. And I take them with me to hospital appointments to give me strength and help keep me calm
  • Mints and a bottle of water: My condition and the dizziness causes a lot of nausea; as well as this my mouth is always dry due to side effects of my medication so the mints and water help with this
  • Hat: I always carry this around in a little pocket in one of many Kipling bags as I have found that wearing a hat and minimising a lot of the stimuli surrounding me does help calm the dizziness down somewhat and is one of my main coping strategies when it gets bad
  • Purse: Always carry a purse as there are always shops at hospitals, and enables me to buy a drink or a snack during my wait.  Oh, and helps towards the car park fees, of course!

 

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What do you carry in your bag/purse/backpack when you visit the doctors’ or hospital?  Feel free to add your thoughts and comments below!

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Welcome to the sixth day of the National Health Blog Month Challenge hosted by WEGO Health.   Every day during the month of November I will be writing a new blog post related to health and living with a chronic illness based upon given prompts provided by WEGO Health.

Today’s prompt reads:

Say WHAT?! What’s the most ridiculous thing you’ve heard about your health condition?  Was there any context? What did you think at the time you heard it – and what do you think of it now?

 

This is a tough prompt relating to my health condition as because it is rare and few people really know about it, then as a result I don’t really hear ridiculous things regarding my illness.  So, I had to go back to the thinking board for this one.  Then I remember a comment I heard whilst out with my carer.  The incident happened a couple of weeks after I started using the wheelchair.  This one week we arrived in our local town and decided to go for a drink and so after my carer got the wheelchair out of the boot of the car and set it up, I then got out of the car to get in the chair.  To do this, I took a tentative and wobbly steps to the wheelchair, and when we were ready I wheeled myself to the local coffee shop.  After ordering, and whilst waiting for the order to be ready, I went to look for a table for us to sit at, and as my carer was still at the counter waiting for our drinks, I began to check my emails, when i heard a conversation between a middle-aged couple at the next table.  “Tsk, I saw her outside walking to the wheelchair; she obviously doesn’t need it!  She must be lazy!”

I was so shocked and upset that I didn’t say anything to the couple and instead focused on my phone, and then as my carer arrived with our drinks, put a smile on my face and started a conversation.  Afterwards, I was very angry – how dare they judge me!  How dare they judge a situation that they don’t know and obviously do not understand.  It saddens me that judgements regarding disability still hasn’t changed despite the so-called legacy of the Paralympics from last year.  I’m not saying however that these judgements are representative of the majority of people, but there are still a minority who assume that just because I am physically able to walk, means that I am not in need of a wheelchair.  I am sure they would think very differently, if they had seen me stumble around and legs giving way because of the weakness.  Yes, I can physically walk but doing so not only causes great discomfort and pain but am also on edge and waiting for them to give way, so using such an aid not only saves me from endless falls but also allows me to enjoy trips out without the worry of when they are next going to give way.

Have you heard something ridiculous about your health condition>  If so, what was it?  How did you feel or react?  Feel free to comment below…

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Welcome to the fifth day of the National Health Blog Post Month Challenge hosted by WEGO Health.   Every day during the month of November I will be writing a new blog post related to health and living with a chronic illness based on given prompts provided by WEGO Health

Today’s prompt reads:

Election day! Votes are in – you won!  If you got elected as President (or Prime Minister, for those living in the UK!), what are the three changes you would make to healthcare?

In the UK, in my opinion we are very fortunate to be provided with a National Health Service; free medical care for every person living in the UK.  There are many positive aspects with the NHS such as the many dedicated staff that work in hospitals and GP surgeries.  However, the NHS is not without its flaws and although I have received many positive experiences using NHS services, I have also sadly experienced negative experiences and seen first-hand how changes could improve the NHS.

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An example, of how frustrating being a patient in the NHS is the unfortunate waiting times for appointments.  The waiting time just to make an appointment with a GP is extraordinary – at my surgery, it is not unusual to wait approximately two weeks to have a non-urgent (or regular) appointment with the doctor.  For hospital consultations it can be approximately a 3 month waiting list.  For a patient living with a chronic illness, like myself it can be a very long wait as we struggle with a flare of the symptoms we live with.  There are approximately 15 million people in the UK suffering with a long-term health condition alone, and after talking on Twitter with other patients, there are many people who have to wait more than a couple of days for a GP appointment.  If the flare is very bad, however, many are then forced to attend Accident and Emergency to get help after failing to get an appointment with their GP.  This obviously increases the NHS load within A and E departments; increasing waiting times and so on.  Therefore, I propose having clinics within GP surgeries and smaller hospitals specifically for those suffering with long-term and chronic health conditions to enable them to get help and advice before their symptoms become so bad that they are forced to attending Accident and Emergency, therefore cutting the number of people attending there and reducing the number of those taking up inpatient beds in hospitals.

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I would also propose making it easier for patients to get in contact with their GP and consultants.  As a patient I am very often frustrated when I cannot contact a doctor to ask a question or get test results.  Messages are taken and supposedly passed on but it can take a long time for them to get back in touch with me.  So, I would make use of technology within the NHS – for example, allowing patients easy access to contact with their consultants via email.  Also, it wold be great to use Skype for non-urgent appointments in all surgeries across the UK.  Technology is quickly becoming a major feature within all aspects of everyday life so why not implement new technologies such as Skype, tablet computers within healthcare?

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The third change I would make within the healthcare system is the proposal to the end of the ‘postcode lottery’ that exists within the NHS.  The ‘postcode lottery’ refers to the difference in healthcare and treatment depending on where you live in the UK.  In my opinion, this is entirely unfair, imagine that you could receive life-saving treatment or medication if only you lived somewhere else!  The purpose of the National Health Service is to provide a consistent and professional service to each and every person living in the UK, and the ‘postcode lottery’ undermines this very fact.

Those are my proposed changes to the healthcare system in the UK.  If you could make changes within the healthcare system where you live, what would you change?

Loved to hear your thought; feel free to comment below!

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