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Welcome to the Health Activist Writer’s Month Challenge brought together by WEGO Health – a social network for all health activists.  Again, I am participating in the annual Writer’s Month Challenge in which I will be writing about my health activism and health condition based upon prompts given.

The first prompt reads as follows:

It’s often hard to like pictures of ourselves – post your favourite picture of yourself 

 

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My favourite picture of me – to be fair the only decent picture of me there is!

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Welcome to the Health Activist Writer’s Month Challenge brought together by WEGO Health – a social network for all health activists.  Again, I am participating in the annual Writer’s Month Challenge in which I will be writing about my health activism and health condition based upon prompts given.

Today’s prompt reads as follows:

Patients, what advice or tips do you have caregivers out there – professional or otherwise!

To be a patient can be exceptionally difficult – it can be lonely, isolating and as a result we often rely a lot on our caregivers, specifically close family members.  We rely on them for emotional support, often financial support, and also caregivers also asked to carry out all those tasks when we are incapacitated and unable to do so.  It is very hard to give tips for caregivers, as the needs of individuals with chronic illnesses varies greatly depending on their condition and the severity that the symptoms affect them.  However these are a few tips that I could give:

  1. Try to understand the patient and their situation, whatever that may be.  It is true that it is very difficult to understand the predicament someone is going through, unless you have been through that situation yourself, and this especially applies to the experience of chronic illness.  However, if you are caring for someone with a chronic illness, and particularly those like mine which can cause unusual symptoms, listen to what it is like for them and try to understand how frightening it must be for them to go through.  Learn about any possible triggers that can cause symptoms. 
  2. Of course, caregivers are not only family members and close friends, but many are employed to care for those who are chronically ill.  For example, I have a Personal Assistant (P.A.) .  In this case it may be particularly useful for you to ask the person you are caring fir, questions about their condition and educate yourself as much as possible about all aspects of that particular condition as it will make it much easier for you to care for them as well as knowing how best to help them overcome some of the difficulties experienced as a result of the illness.  Find out the needs – for example, I often when using my crutch like to hold onto the arm of the person with me, to help keep my balance and to prevent falls.  It is imperative for caregivers to find out the needs of the patient before all else, to let the patient have semblance of control over their lives.
  3. Be understanding and patient.   it can be very difficult to plan ahead of time; to plan days out and other activities as the patient will not know how they will feel as that particular moment of time.  Trips might have to be postponed or cancelled at short notice.  This can be very frustrating for not only the patient but also the caregiver.  In these instances it can also be important for carers’ to be PRACTICAL and INVENTIVE, perhaps thinking of other activities that the patient can take part inside the house – this could be time spent playing board games, or a cinema afternoon playing favourite movies with popcorn and wrapping up with a quilt or blanket.  Or perhaps one of my favourite hobbies – making cards!
  4. Be NON-JUDGEMENTAL as many conditions produce symptoms that can be embarrassing or hard to understand, so it is very important for carers to not judge the person because of them and instead be supportive and kind.
  5. To LISTEN, be SUPPORTIVE and SYMPATHETIC.  This is incredibly important after the initial diagnosis; the patient will be scared and incredibly anxious about what the future will hold – not knowing if the condition will become worse and so on.  In this case show that you still love the person despite everything.  Also, never assume you know what the person is feeling or experiencing on a daily basis.  If  they say they are feeling very dizzy, and finding it incredibly difficult and so cannot go out – then BELIEVE them!  Give the person a cuddle – or go out and buy them a treat to put a smile on their face.  They’ll be very appreciative of it – I know I did when a very dear friend gave me a beautiful bunch of flowers; or when another friend sent me a beautiful butterfly brooch as she knew how much I loved them and wanted to do something nice for me when I was going through a difficult time.
  6. To HELP out with certain tasks that may be difficult for the person you are caring about and to not make a big deal about doing so, as this can be detrimental to the self-esteem of the patient.
  7.  To keep a list of contacts somewhere accessible in case of emergencies – including doctors telephone number, emergency contacts and other information that will be useful.  This is useful when dealing with conditions like mine, where falls and accidents can very easily occur.  I have certain telephone numbers that I can ring if I hurt myself or an emergency crops up when I am on my own.  If the patient has deteriorated and mobility has become severely affected; falls and accidents are becoming more prone than I would definitely advise getting a social services assessment done as they can provide excellent resources and can offer assessments for adaptations for the home if needed, as well as offering services such as ‘LifeLine’ where emergency contacts can be alerted in the event of a fall or some other accident.  They can provide peace of mind for carers when they need to go out but are worried for the patient’s well-being.
  8. And lastly, it;s important for carers’ not to burn out themselves so I would advise for them to take time out for themselves – perhaps, join a support group for other caregivers’ or take up a new hobby or past-time.  Generally keep fit and healthy so that you are able to provide the care that the patient needs.

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But perhaps most of all, it would be useful to give tips to doctors advice on how to care for those with chronic illness.  So, many times I have read stories on blogs or forums regarding the poor treatment of them, lack of sympathy and understanding.  It’s ridiculous, as to my knowledge medicine is supposed to be a ‘caring profession’.  So, perhaps it is time that the chronically ill rise and tell doctors how we would like to be treated.  If I could advise doctors on how to treat us, these would be my top few:

  1. Take an active interest in patients – learn their names, find more about our lives, likes and dislikes and more importantly everything there is to know about our health, and I mean everything, especially if the person is yet to be undiagnosed as you never know which information may be important to find that all important diagnosis.  Be warm and friendly, and treat the patient as a person rather than a set of symptoms, this is important to build rapport with the doctor, as if no rapport is established; then it makes it so much more difficult to be able to open up to the doctor and tell everything that is going on with our health
  2. To LISTEN and more importantly BELIEVE your patients.  I am sure we have all encountered doctors who didn’t listen to anything that we have told them during consultations and instead, the doctor merely made assumptions regarding the health of their patient.  So, doctors please listen to your patients and believe in them – fight for them; fight to get answers for them and don’t give up on them!
  3. Be upfront and tell the patient all of the information regarding tests results and so on – This is for me is one of the most important tips that I could offer a new doctor or nurse.  There really is no point, in my opinion, to sugarcoat information – the patient has to know everything there is to know so that they can make an informed decision.  I remember that I only found out about part of my condition, the spastic paraparesis after reading about it on a letter that the consultant had sent my G.P.  This consultant had never mentioned about this during the appointment I had with him, and if I had not read the letter, then I would not know anything about it.  And if I hadn’t know about it, and after searching about the condition online then I would have been very worried and distressed when the condition in my legs started to deteriorate as I would not have had a clue what was going on due to the lack of information!!  So please, newly qualified doctors, make sure to tell your patient all there is to know regarding the results of tests run, or even regarding the condition that has been diagnosed so the patient knows exactly what to expect.

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What advice would you give your doctor or caregiver?  Please get in touch – as always would love to hear your thoughts!

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Welcome to the Health Activist Writer’s Month Challenge brought together by WEGO Health – a social network for all health activists.  Again, I am participating in the annual Writer’s Month Challenge in which I will be writing about my health activism and health condition based upon prompts given.

Today’s prompt reads as follows:

If your health condition (or the health condition of a loved one) was an animal, what would it be?  Is it a real animal or make-believe? 

If my health condition were an animal , I would compare it to the Okapi.  A real animal that is closely related to the giraffe, and which resides in the Ituri Rainforest, in the northeast region of the Democratic Republic of the Congo.  It is thought that there are only 10 to 20 thousand still living in the wild, and therefore the sight of one is rather rare since they are close to being endangered.

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I have chosen the Okapi as a metaphorical representation of my condition, as like the Okapi, my condition is also rather unique and rare.

Often, with doctors when they hear symptoms, they often “think horses, not zebras.”  Perhaps this is the reason for many misdiagnoses, and waiting, often for years for the correct diagnosis when dealing with rare or unusual conditions.  Doctors assume the symptoms are the result of a more common illness or disorder; such as when people assume hoofbeats are caused by horses, and not zebras.  Therefore, when considering an animal as a representation of my condition, it has to be one which is rare and unusual, and one in which others are not likely to consider.

Furthermore, as a result of my condition, the symptoms that I experience, such as the dizziness and vertigo, can also be found in many different conditions as well as my own.  The Okapi, is very often said to reminisce with another animal also – the markings that it has, bares similar similarities to that of the zebra, and therefore often mistaken to related to it, although the Okapi is said to be closely related to the giraffe.

What would I name the animal?  For this I would have to go for ‘Bambi’ – yes, I know Bambi is famously a deer, but with the weakness in my legs, and the problems with the balance, I do look like Bambi a lot of the time.  Imagine in the film when Bambi is trying to get up and walk – that is very much like me when my legs are weak; often unable to support me, and so legs collapsing just like Bambi’s is a regular occurrence for me!

My own ‘Okapi’ then would be extremely clumsy and off-balance to represent the weakness in my limbs; and would sleep for hours on end because of extreme fatigue.  However, the ‘Okapi’ would also show strength and stubbornness as like with everyone battling chronic illness both of these traits are needed to get through each and every day.

So, next time you hear hoofbeats, think of the Okapi and not horses!

If your condition was an animal, what animal would you choose?  Have fun with it; and let me know!  Comment below!

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Welcome to the Health Activist Writer’s Month Challenge brought together by WEGO Health – a social network for all health activists.  Again, I am participating in the annual Writer’s Month Challenge in which I will be writing about my health activism and health condition based upon prompts given.

Today’s prompt reads as follows:

Say WHAT?  What’s the most ridiculous thing you’ve heard about health or your condition?  Where did you hear it and what did you think? 

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I once heard, a few years ago, by a doctor, that the dizziness I was experiencing was simply in my imagination and couldn’t possibly be experiencing it as I was far too young!  Yes, dizziness is often discussed in relation as a symptoms often experienced later in life and sometimes referred to as “just another part of getting older.”

However, although dizziness is often seen in older adults, many of us, from experience, know that it can occur at any age, and can be as a result of a number of different factors.  Dizziness can be as a result of a head injury, degenerative diseases and other physical ailments.  And as I have read countless of times, during research, symptoms of dizziness are not normal at any age and are a sign that something is wrong, and therefore should be investigated.

Obviously been told this, and especially, someone in a position of power, like a doctor, and given that I was very young was distressing.  Distressing to think that although the dizziness was severe and affecting me so badly, that no-one believed me.  Telling me instead that it was all in my head also meant that the dizziness I was experiencing was not being investigated by doctors, and therefore further delayed me getting the correct diagnosis.

Obviously any symptoms that someone is experiencing which is out of the ordinary should be thoroughly investigated until all avenues have been exhausted, for peace of mind if anything.

What if the doctors that I visited took my dizziness more seriously?  Perhaps then I would have gotten a diagnosis more quickly.  Would it have made a difference in terms of treatment?  Would the dizziness be less severe if I had interventions sooner?  That I cannot answer but it would have meant that I wouldn’t have gone through so many years of believing that the dizziness was all in my head.

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Welcome to the Health Activist Writer’s Month Challenge brought together by WEGO Health – a social network for all health activists.  Again, I am participating in the annual Writer’s Month Challenge in which I will be writing about my health activism and health condition based upon prompts given.

Today’s prompt reads as follows:

Write a letter to your condition – what do you want to get off your chest? 

Unfortunately, today I am feeling particularly unwell, and am not feeling up to writing.  So, instead I have decided to republish an older post, which was along the same line as today’s post, which asked us to write a letter to our condition.

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Dear brain lesion,

I am not sure quite what to say to you, as I have never written a letter like this before but I will try my best.

I find you very odd; I experience so many fluctuations in my condition – how I feel, and the severity in which I experience the symptoms that you cause me.  These fluctuations not only change day by day, but can also change hour from hour, or even minute by minute!!  And it’s these fluctuations that stops me from leading a normal life. This condition does not allow me the ability to make plans for nights out with friends, or holidays or full days out, as I never know how I will feel on that particular day, or even I am having a rare ‘good’ day, I have no knowledge whether it will remain that way, or if I will be taken ill sometime during the trip.  

Living with you day-to-day is hard, and it’s particularly hard when questions are raised by others about you.  You are rare, and not understood, even doctors can be baffled by you.  This then causes the mammoth task of trying to explain you – what you are, how you affect me and so on.  I would wish no chronic illness on anyone, but one which is especially difficult as you are is particularly hard to deal with.  The loneliness and isolation that you cause, can often be overwhelming; no one can understand exactly how I feel, or what it is exactly like living with you.  There are no support groups for people like me, living with you, no friends who I can call on when times are tough and I really need to vent; I have several confidantes – some online, some I can see in real life, but still no one that can just get ‘you’ and how you treat me; how you affect me.

I have lived with you for so many years now; many of those years I did not even know of your existence.  Now, you are constantly making your presence felt, like a loud, harsh scream being blasted in my ear.  Every turn I make, you are their, like a shadow; a dark figure lurking, waiting.  And then within a blink of an eye, my legs will give out; lying on the ground, unable to get up due to the weakness in the legs.  You causing embarrassment; you causing injuries and pain.  The doctors tell me that there’s nothing that can be done – no treatments to help, no reigns that I can attach to keep you under control.  When I was diagnosed with you, at first there was relief – relief at knowing that there was a name for you; relief that finally I had validation from the doctors’ that you were very much real, and not in my head as it was often claimed.  Then, I have felt despair; despair at realising that there was nothing anyone could do to treat eliminate you from life.  It was like being blindfolded and then left in the middle in the centre of a garden maze where I am expected to find the exit without any guidance and without the ability to see exactly where I was going.

You have made me your victim, from something that I cannot escape.  Never will I escape you; you live deep within me, deep within my brain, there will you be there forever.  But I will not let you win, I will not let you beat me, and I will be happy despite you, that I am determined of.  Because of you, I have found inner strength, have found things that I am good at, and have found ways in which I can help others and participate in social activities and pastimes. Despite you, I have found friends whom I can talk to and despite the problems you cause, they like me for who I am, and look beyond my imperfections.

I may not be able to beat you, but because of you, I am stronger than I have realised; have made me aware that I can overcome certain obstacles and overcome challenges that come within my path.  And I will not let you beat me – all the obstacles and challenges that you present , I will overcome; find my own path into achieving everything that I wish to.  I am hoping to go on holiday, possibly on a cruise, and I am determined not to let you beat me – I will have a good time despite you. 

And for that I thank you.

Rhiann x

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