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Anxiety; Through The Prism of Chronic Illness

February 2, 2021 1 Comment

Anxiety, like an unwanted stalker, has followed me for as long as I can remember.

Moments of panic and worry punctuated my life. Anxious thoughts overpowered my brain. All of which existed long before being diagnosed with a neurological disorder. Although the symptoms of which existed from a very young age, they became more pronounced as I grew up. However, doctors could find no cause to explain such symptoms. The anxiety that had always been a part of my life became a source of blame for my symptoms.

After many years of searching for answers, and many more doctors’ visits and hospital appointments, I finally had answers. I had a diagnosis and a physical explanation for my symptoms.

Often when doctors can find no organic cause for the symptoms a patient is enduring, anxiety is blamed -photo by **Suzy Hazelwood** from **Pexels**.

The anxiety that had long pursued me was, in fact, a symptom of a neurological disorder and not the cause of it as doctors had long suspected. You would expect that finally having answers would lessen and quiet it, but instead, this diagnosis only became an amplifier for my existing anxiety.

It used to be a complete mystery, but now I have a better understanding of anxiety through the prism of chronic illness. Now I realise that anxiety is not a separate issue but has developed because of a chronic illness.

"It used to be a complete mystery, but now I have a better understanding of anxiety through the prism of chronic illness. Anxiety is not a separate issue but has developed because of chronic illness." Share on X

Anxiety: Another Symptom of Living With Chronic Illness

On reflection, the sudden appearance of intense, mysterious symptoms triggered the fear and panic that often paralysed me, stopping me in my tracks. When I understood the symptoms and why they were occurring, it no longer elicited the same terror that they used to. The anxiety was still an issue, but I could now categorise it as another symptom of living with a chronic illness.

Every new twinge or pain causes a wave of anxiety as I worry what it means for me and my future.

There is still much of my condition that is shrouded in mystery. And it’s this unknown, the uncertainty that incites much anxiety in my life. With every new pain, or spasm, or symptom, an alarm bell begins to sound. I question whether such a sensation is normal, something related to my condition, or something else entirely. I worry as I try to work out if I should be worried.

"There is still much of my condition that is shrouded in mystery. And it's this unknown, the uncertainty that incites much anxiety in my life." Share on X

Becoming Hypersensitive and Overly Vigilant of Your Body and Health

When symptoms have gone on for so long, you can no longer remember how it feels to reside inside a ‘normal’ and fully functioning body. As a result, you aren’t always able to trust your perception regarding your body and subsequent health. As a result, you become incredibly hypersensitive and vigilant of your body in ways that you would otherwise never need to be.

"You aren't always able to trust your perception regarding your body. As a result, you become incredibly hypersensitive and vigilant of your body in ways that you would otherwise never need to be." Share on X

The unpredictability and lack of control over such relentless symptoms often mean that you can never really be prepared for when they are suddenly going to appear.

I usually spend energy, perhaps more energy than I can spare worrying on what people think of me, or whether I will be able to walk or get out of bed each new morning when I wake. Before I’ve begun my day, anxiety is there, as I worry what the symptoms will have in store for me for the day ahead. Thoughts fly through my head, such as “If I do this today, will it aggravate and worsen the symptoms?”

"Before I've begun my day, anxiety is there, as I worry what the symptoms will have in store for me for the day ahead." Share on X

Every day I worry that anything I do will somehow trigger or worsen symptoms.

On rare occasions, when mornings are uneventful, and symptoms are not present, there is a moment of joy. I imagine what can be done with this day of relative freedom from the confines of illness. However, this moment of ecstasy proves to be fleeting as once again, anxiety resurfaces. Thoughts such as “I might be feeling well, but I know that it won’t last for long” run through my mind. Anxious that at any moment, the symptoms will suddenly reemerge spoiling the day. There is also the worry of doing anything that may trigger the symptoms or worsen them.

Anxious When Leaving The House Alongside Physical Symptoms

In my experience, the unpleasant and relentless symptoms are difficult enough to live with and manage inside the safety of home. Symptoms can often be unpredictable and severe with nothing to do but to endure them. But symptoms can be much more challenging to control or predict when outside the house with all the outside world’s distractions. And as such, anxiety can often rear its head when needing to venture out into the outside world. The fear that the symptoms will suddenly appear ruining plans and our fun. Or when they do occur, we will be unable to manage or control them, thus leaving them to become out of control.

When living with a neurological condition, **there can be constant anxiety of suffering a fall** and left unable to get back up. Photo by **Daria Shevtsova** from **Pexels**

The most severe symptom that I have to contend with is the weakness and trembling in my legs.

Such symptoms can result in them giving way, without warning and leaving me lying in a heap on the floor. Such occurrences can be frightening even when at home. Leaving the house can be daunting. Images of my legs suddenly collapsing, leaving me lying in the middle of a road flash through my mind, or falling over and not being able to get back up. Flashbacks of the times such incidents have also haunted my thoughts, leaving a heavy pit of worry deep in the bottom my stomach

‘Anxious because I am unable to trust my own body’

A lot of the anxiety I experience is a result of not being able to trust my body. Every day it’s hit or miss whether my body will hold out. I don’t trust that my legs will allow me to walk. I don’t trust that I won’t get dizzy and need to hold onto something to steady myself. As a result of these severe, debilitating symptoms, I no longer feel safe anywhere. Anywhere can now seem threatening and unsafe, as my symptoms can follow me anywhere, so anxiety frequently follows me also.

"A lot of the anxiety I experience is a result of not being able to trust my body. Every day it's hit or miss whether my body will hold out. I don't trust that my legs will allow me to walk. I don't trust that I won't get dizzy." Share on X

"I no longer feel safe anywhere. Anywhere can now seem threatening and unsafe, as my symptoms can follow me anywhere, so anxiety frequently follows me also." Share on X

The many what-ifs surrounding my illness and all the uncertainty it creates means that my thoughts are continually racing. My mind needs to be frequently distracted; otherwise, I can spiral into panic. It is easy to find distractions at home. I practice mindfulness or play fun word games or complete jigsaw puzzles. I read or exercise to keep my mind and body as healthy as possible. But once I am out, the things I can do to distract myself are limited, so anxiety skyrockets. I become more vigilant of every sensation and symptom that is occurring within my body. The trembling in my legs heightens to the point that it feels they will collapse at any second.

Being At The Mercy of Both Anxiety and Chronic Illness

When living with anxiety and chronic illness, you are at the mercy of both. When there is a flare in either the symptoms of chronic illness or anxiety, the other will follow. Or when anxious, the already present symptoms will almost certainly worsen. When experiencing a severe, debilitating, crippling flare anxiety will also. Juggling anxiety on top of illness isn’t impossible but continually proves to be a frustrating and time-consuming challenge to master.

Anxiety has always been present, a by-product of an illness that I had yet to be aware of and continues to be a mystery. But it has been easier to understand through the prism of chronic illness. Anxiety is not a separate issue from living with a chronic illness but often develops because of it.

"Anxiety has always been present, a by-product of an illness that I had yet to be aware of and continues to be a mystery. But it has been easier to understand through the prism of chronic illness." Share on X

If living with a chronic illness was a battle, then it is one that I am unable to win. The skills such as mindfulness and breathing exercise have proven to be useful in lessening the anxiety but have had no effect on the physical symptoms I endure. But perhaps the anxiety that accompanies it is one that I can defeat.

Anxiety Through The Prism of Chronic Illness

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Chronic Illness: A Battle of Mental Health

October 28, 2020 3 Comments

Sheryl from A Chronic Voice, as well as sharing her own stories and lessons with chronic illness. Sheryl is an excellent support to other bloggers and writers living with illness and chronic pain. One such way is through monthly link-up parties whereby bloggers and writers share their stories through given prompts. As World Mental Health Day fell in October, I decided to use the prompts to discuss chronic illness and mental health.

Chronic Illness: Directing a Battle Concerning Our Mental Health

In my last blog post, I recited a famous quote from the Shakespeare play, As You Like It. All the world’s a stage, And all the men and women merely players.” But if I indeed am the player or actor than what role would chronic illness assume?

After much thought, I concluded that chronic illness surely would assume the position of a director. A director, the person in charge and assumes all responsibility for every facet of a film or stage production. It can feel like chronic illness plays a similar role in the lives of those forced to live with it.

When living with a chronic illness it not only has a significant impact upon your physical health, but has one on your mental health also. Image by Wokandapix from Pixabay.

For much of the time, illness, much like a film director, has control over every facet of our lives. It has control over how we think and feel, or even whether we can get out of bed. It often drastically limits what we can do, and brings a whole lot of uncertainty to everyday life. And it has complete control over where and when the symptoms that accompany it will strike.

"For much of the time, illness, much like a film director, has control over every facet of our lives. It has control over how we think and feel, or even whether we can get out of bed." Share on X

But chronic illness is not directing a cute rom-com or a cheesy comedy. It is producing a narrative depicting a battle; a battle that is not only physical but one that also concerns our mental health.

"But chronic illness is not directing a cute rom-com or a cheesy comedy. It is producing a narrative depicting a battle; a battle that is not only physical but one that also concerns our mental health." Share on X

Acquiring Not Only Physical Symptoms But Symptoms Associated with Mental Health Also

Once again overwhelmed by severe and debilitating symptoms, it feels that FND is once again directing over my entire life. Trembling and weakness, particularly in my legs, have become incredibly tenacious, and the pain associated with it especially incessant. It is easy to become morose and unhappy during a surge of unrelenting and ceaseless symptoms such as this.

"It is easy to become morose and unhappy during a surge of unrelenting and ceaseless symptoms." Share on X

As my legs continue to buckle when trying to stand, I can only lie down and surrender to the torment such symptoms have on my life. It is a constant reminder that I no longer have control over my illness. It’s accompanying symptoms once again prove that they play by their own rules. As I lose control over my body, panic often ensues as I feel unsafe and vulnerable. I develop a deep distrust of my body as it continually deteriorates and redefines itself as something weaker than before.

It is easy to fall into despair and hopelessness, even depression when experiencing a surge of unrelenting and debilitating symptoms—photo by Yuris Alhumaydy on Unsplash.

"As I lose control over my body, panic often ensues as I feel unsafe and vulnerable. I develop a deep distrust of my body as it continually deteriorates and redefines itself as something weaker than before." Share on X

The Grief and Burden of Being Chronically Ill; Leading to Feelings of Anxiety and Depression

As the hatred and distrust of my body continue to grow, it slowly develops toward hatred of myself also. Severely limited by the symptoms that continually plague me, I begin to feel useless. Weak. Worthless. A burden. The sadness of the permanency of my condition and the lack of relief that my prescribed medications deliver weighs heavily. Many a morning, I find myself in floods of tears as the burden of being ill becomes too much to bear. Once again, the grief of being chronically sick overwhelming both my body and mind.

"The sadness of the permanency of my condition and the lack of relief that my prescribed medications deliver weighs heavily. Many a morning, I find myself in floods of tears as the burden of being ill becomes too much to bear." Share on X

Anxiety and fear of the future haunt my thoughts as I worry that I continue to worsen; troubled by what FND will take from me next. The permanence of the condition and the uncertainty that it leaves in its wake leaves me anxious and fearful; anxious thoughts wrangle for attention and shining a flashlight of everything I cannot control.

"The permanence of the condition and the uncertainty that it leaves in its wake leaves me anxious and fearful; anxious thoughts wrangle for attention and shining a flashlight of everything I cannot control. " Share on X

But it’s not only anxiety of the future that continually haunts me. With the increase of falls that I experience, leaving the safety and comfort of home has become daunting and anxiety-inducing.

As the emotional burdens of continue to grow, they become bigger and bigger metamorphosing into depression and anxiety. Anxiety and depression becoming other symptoms to contend with alongside the physical manifestations of chronic illness.

"As the emotional burdens of continue to grow, they become bigger and bigger metamorphosing into depression and anxiety. Anxiety and depression becoming other symptoms we are forced to contend with." Share on X

Disappointing Myself Because of Limitations

As much as I experience triumphs and progress from the confines of FND, they are often fleeting. The impact of its symptoms revealing the limitations of my body and health. Things that once came effortlessly have now become difficult. I often find myself unable to get out of bed straightaway in the mornings due to the severe weakness in my legs, for example. The ever-growing limitations have made me more reliant on others. As a result, I often feel great disappointment in myself.

"As much as I experience triumphs and progress from the confines of FND, they are often fleeting. The impact of its symptoms revealing the new limitations of my body and health." Share on X

girl crying while touching glass window — Living with disabling symptoms can result in anxiety about a lot of things, but especially about going out as we can never know when symptoms are going to appear. It can lead to a lack of confidence, isolation and depression.

Recently, with the increasing number of times my legs have collapsed, I have lost all confidence in not only them but going out. As a result, I have backed out of countless trips, anxious that my legs will do so while out. With every cancelled plan, the disappointment I feel toward myself only deepens; feeling not only physically weak but mentally too. Such incidents continually chip away at my self-confidence and deepening the depressed feelings also.

"With every cancelled plan, the disappointment I feel toward myself only deepens; feeling not only physically weak but mentally too. Such incidents continually chip away at my self-confidence and deepening the depression." Share on X

Switching Up Thoughts of What Came First

Many of the symptoms that I experience due to FND can also be signs of conditions such as anxiety. Anxiety itself can produce physical symptoms such as shaky legs, a racing heart and shortness of breath as examples.

The lies that depression and anxiety whisper to you can lead to self-doubt and the belief that the symptoms you are experiencing are all in your head and ultimately your fault—photo by **Kat Jayne** from **Pexels**.

For me, I am well aware of this as for many years, the symptoms I was experiencing, were attributed to depression and anxiety. Such conclusions only strengthened when physical tests came back as normal. It took many years and many many hospital appointments before receiving the diagnosis of a Functional Neurological Disorder and probable Cerebral Palsy. At that defining appointment, the specialist assured me that the symptoms weren’t due to depression or anxiety; and it was not ‘all in my head’ as I had heard many times before. Instead, the depression and anxiety I experience are a result of living with a long-term neurological condition.

"Depression and anxiety regularly feed lies to you, convincing you that the symptoms experienced are your fault. They persuade me that it is indeed all in my head, and consequently, I am to blame for me being sick." Share on X

But still, as depressed and anxious thoughts run throughout my brain, I begin to doubt this fact, however. Depression and anxiety regularly feed lies to you, convincing you that the symptoms experienced are your fault. During my worst times with this illness, they persuade me that it is indeed all in my head, and consequently, I am to blame for me being sick.

Chronic Illness: Forming A Battle Between Physical and Mental Health

In my history of living with FND, depression and anxiety have become adjoining features of my experience with it. But it is not only my experience. According to Paul Mayberry and a Metro article on the relationship between chronic illness and mental health, forty-nine per cent of those suffering from a chronic illness are also prescribed anti-depressants. Research has also suggested that anxiety is more common in persons with a chronic disease than in the general population.

When battling through a severely debilitating flare, it can feel as though both my physical and mental health are conspiring against me

"According to Paul Mayberry and a Metro article on the relationship between chronic illness and mental health, forty-nine per cent of those suffering from a chronic illness are also prescribed anti-depressants." Share on X

Physical and mental health are inextricably linked, both working in unison and having a significant effect on the other. When battling through a severely debilitating flare, it can feel as though both my physical and mental health are conspiring against me. But, I have also learnt that to thrive, I cannot focus on just one aspect of my health. Instead, I need to work on both physical and mental health to live a happier and brighter life.

"When battling through a severely debilitating flare, it can feel like as though my physical and mental health are conspiring against me." Share on X

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CBD Oil: Can It Help To Relieve Chronic Pain?

May 20, 2020 2 Comments

Disclaimer: The team at Reakiro kindly sent me their CBD Oil Peppermint Spray. I received the product for free in exchange for providing an unbiased and truthful review. I received no other compensation. All opinions are mine alone.

In chronic illness, often lies a desperate search; a continual search for relief from debilitating symptoms. We leave appointments with various medications to help find the lasting relief we seek.

"In chronic illness, often lies a desperate search; a continual search for relief from debilitating symptoms. We leave appointments with various medications to help find the lasting relief we seek." Share on X

But often, instead of relief, there is just disappointment as such crippling symptoms endure. And with medications comes torturous side effects to contend with, as well as those they supposedly treat.

"But often, instead of relief, there is just disappointment as such crippling symptoms endure. And with medications comes torturous side effects to contend with, as well as those they supposedly treat. " Share on X

A life with chronic illness becomes one of starting one medication and stopping another. And switching to an alternative as it fails to work or becomes ineffective at their job. Is it any wonder, therefore, that many are looking towards alternative medicine to fight the incapacitating symptoms that accompany chronic illness?

In recent times, there has been much interest and speculation of the potential benefit that CBD may have on those living with symptoms often associated with a wide range of chronic illnesses, such as chronic pain, fatigue, insomnia and so on. Image by Julia Teichmann from Pixabay.

One such alternative is that of CBD oil. One which has seen a surge in popularity and interest as a natural source of pain relief. But research has shown that it may ease other symptoms associated with chronic illness.

"There has been a surge in the interest and popularity of CBD as a natural source of pain relief. Research has also shown that it may help ease other symptoms associated with chronic illness." Share on X

What is CBD and How Does It Work?

CBD is an acronym for cannabidiol, just one of many chemical compounds found in both cannabis and hemp plants, and both of which CBD is derived. Hemp is the usual choice; however, as cannabis also contains a potent and psychoactive compound known as THC. It is this that gives users a high, and as such can only be sought in places where it is legal to do so.

There are many different bodily systems which help keep them working as they should and help maintain balance. One such example is the endocannabinoid system (ECS); one thought to regulate a wide range of biological functions such including sleep, mood, immune response and pain to name but a few. When something is wrong, this system will release the body’s natural cannabinoids, known as endocannabinoids, to help restore balance.

And how does CBD factor in this? Well, CBD influences the body to use its endocannabinoids more effectively by activating or inhibiting other compounds in the ECS. For example, CBD helps stops the body from absorbing anandamide, a cannabinoid associated with regulating pain. If increased levels of anandamide are available, therefore, it may reduce the amount of pain a person experiences.

It may also limit inflammation in the brain and nervous system, benefitting people experiencing pain, insomnia, anxiety and other immune-system responses. As those with chronic conditions often exhibit these problems, it is no wonder, therefore, why CBD has been gaining much interest within the chronic illness community.

"Science suggests that CBD help limit inflammation in the brain and nervous system, benefitting people experiencing chronic pain, insomnia, anxiety and other immune-system responses." Share on X

Is CBD Oil Legal?

Most of us are aware that cannabis is a controlled substance under the Misuse of Drugs Act, here in the UK. As a result, there is much confusion whether CBD is even legal, therefore. The Misuse of Drugs Act determines that most cannabinoids are illegal. However, CBD is an exception to this.

In the UK, CBD Oil is legal and relatively well regulated. But the legality of the product must satisfy three conditions for it to be so; Image by Julia Teichmann from Pixabay.

There are three conditions, which all CBD products on the market must adhere to, for it to be legal. The first condition is that the use of the product is medicinal. Also, the CBD must derive from an industrial hemp strain that has been approved by the EU. And lastly, that it contains less than 0.2 percent THC and not easily separated from it.

So Many Decisions To Consider Regarding CBD

The decision of whether or not to try CBD oil to help relieve your symptoms associated with a chronic illness is only one of many. One such choice is what form of CBD to take as each offers different benefits, and has both pros and cons associated with them.

To determine which form may be best suited for you, you need to consider your needs, type of pain and pain levels, and also how comfortable you feel regarding a particular method of consumption. Cost may also become a factor when deciding which to use, as price varies between the different products available.

There are various forms of CBD available – creams and lotions, tinctures (those held under the tongue before swallowing), edible foods and vaping. Share on X

CBD oil can take the form as creams and lotions (topicals), which is supposedly useful for localised pain relief. Tinctures, held under the tongue before swallowing, are relatively fast-acting; absorbed into the bloodstream quickly. Edible foods containing CBD offer a long-lasting effect but may take some time for its effects to kick in. Vaping although provides excellent pain relief delivering a higher dose, the inhalation, however, is not so suitable for the lungs.

Another issue to consider is where to purchase your CBD product of choice. If purchasing online, there can be uncertainty in the quality and concentration of what you are receiving.

Reakiro, however, is a great place to start, taking the stress of researching, and the worry of selecting a high-quality product away.

Who Are Reakiro?

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Reakiro is a relatively new brand based in Europe. It is a brand that has full control of their CBD oil production from the purchase of the seeds, to the cultivating and harvesting of the plants. They also have control over the extracting, refining and packaging of their product.

Reakiro is one of the few European manufacturers who can consistently trace the entire product lifecycle from seed to sale. Every decision we make regarding our production is made with the sharpest attention to deal.

Reakiro is a brand that has full control of their CBD oil production from the purchase of the seeds, to the cultivating and harvesting of the plants. They also have control over the extracting, refining and packaging of their product.

The production of CBD involves organic extraction to ensure purity and safeguard against contamination from any chemical solvents. The oil itself is available in a concentration of 3.5, 10 and 15 per cent.

Furthermore, Reakiro CBD Oil is a full spectrum (which means that it contains all the compounds, found naturally occurring in the plant) and also produced from the highest quality industrial hemp cultivated in the EU and tested by independent third-party laboratories.

Reakiro was also listed as one of the ‘Top 25 CBD Online Shops in Europe in 2020‘ by Strain Insider.

What Reakiro Offers

The site has an impressive number of different CBD oil products on their website, from a skincare range to CBD capsules. So, there is undoubtedly something suitable for most needs, and budget. Although, more information regarding the benefits for those in the chronic illness community might have been useful when deciding which product to purchase.

"Reakiro offers an impressive number of different CBD based products on their website. Undoubtedly there is something suitable for most needs and budgets." Share on X

Furthermore, as Reakiro has full control of the production of its CBD oil, and tested by independent, and therefore, impartial laboratories, you can trust that you are receiving a high-quality product. When getting your order, you will also receive a copy of a laboratory report from a sample of their CBD oil. It shows, therefore, that Reakiro, provides the quality, consistency and transparency that you should expect from a company. It assures you that you can trust them, and have faith in the quality of its products.

"As Reakiro has full control of the production of its CBD oil, and tested by independent, and therefore, impartial laboratories, you can trust that you are receiving a high-quality product." Share on X

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Review of the Reakiro CBD Oil Spray (Peppermint 1000mg)

The Reakiro CBD Oil Spray is available in three different flavours – peppermint, as shown above, blood orange and apple crumble. Photo credited to Reakiro.

I chose to review the Peppermint CBD Oil Spray (1000mg). Although been wanting to try CBD oil for some time now, I was wary of using the bottles with the dropper. Due to the neurological condition I live with, I often experience trembling in the hands, leading to clumsiness and a high likelihood of dropping things. As a result, there was the worry that I could use easily drop the bottle, wasting the oil that could help ease the symptoms that affect me significantly.

"A great advantage of the CBD Oil Spray is that it can be easily slipped inside a bag, and be discreetly administered when out of the house if it is needed." Share on X

Furthermore, the spray offers the ease of being discreetly administered when out of the house, if needed.

Receiving The Product

The oil arrived in a sturdy cardboard box, with shredded cardboard inside protecting a cylindrical container. Inside was further padding, protecting the bottle of CBD oil from being damaged in transit. The order tracked, with a signature required upon delivery. It gave me confidence that the oil would reach me safely, especially with the ability to track the progress of the package while in transit.

"The CBD Oil did take some getting used to due to its strong taste and smell. I found that the peppermint flavour did little, however, to mask the grassy taste of the oil." Share on X

Taking the oil did take getting used to, as the smell and taste of it is rather strong. The directions that Reakiro provide is to spray one or two times under the tongue, then hold for one minute before swallowing. Reakiro advises to use its spray twice daily, or as needed.

A definite advantage of the CBD Oil Spray is that it can easily be put inside a handbag and be administered discreetly if needed when out of the house.

The CBD Oil sprays come in three different flavours – peppermint, blood orange or apple crumble. I chose the peppermint as I find that it is one that helps quell nausea I frequently experience. However, I found that the peppermint did little to mask the strong grassy taste of the CBD oil. And although unpleasant at first, it was not so disagreeable that I was unable to tolerate the taste. After a few days of using the spray, however, I was able to use it daily without having a strong physical reaction to it. It would be interesting to try the other flavours to determine whether they are better at masking the intense flavour.

Did CBD Oil Help With The Symptoms Associated With FND

The symptoms I experience as a result of FND have been particularly severe as late. It has been especially true regarding chronic pain; pain focused to the legs. In regards to my symptoms, I haven’t noticed any significant changes, although it has slightly taken the edge off the intense, debilitating pain. Although it is not much, it is very much welcome while in the midst of such crippling pain.

"I have noticed any significant changes in regards to my symptoms, but the CBD oil has slightly taken the edge off the intense, debilitating pain. It has also helped me feel calmer and less anxious since starting it." Share on X

I have, however, noticed that I am feeling a lot calmer and less anxious. It. may be that after a prolonged time of use, there might be more relief from the pain and other symptoms.

Those of us, living with chronic illness, are aware that there often is no cure to the conditions that affect us so. However, if we can find things that provide a modicum of relief, then it is worth making it a part of a treatment plan.

"There is often no cure, or effective treatment for our conditions. However, if we can find things, like CBD oil, to provide a modicum of relief, then it is worth making it a part of a treatment plan." Share on X

Haven’t found anything that has helped calm and soothes your symptoms of chronic illness? Why not try CBD a try; you have nothing to lose, and perhaps some relief to gain.

"Haven't found anything that has helped calm and soothes your symptoms of chronic illness? Why not try CBD a try; you have nothing to lose, and perhaps some relief to gain." Share on X

CBD Oil: Can It Help Relieve Chronic Pain?

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10 Things I’m Afraid Of Due to FND

October 20, 2019 2 Comments

Inspired by Halloween and the podcast ‘10 Things That Scare Me‘ and the fantastic ‘10 Things I’m Afraid Of (With MS)‘ by Ardra Shephard (Tripping On Air.) I thought I would share my own 10 Things I’m Afraid Of, but with the added qualifier of ‘due to FND’. Because living with such a condition can invoke many fears and anxieties.

The temperatures are starting to drop, the air becoming cold and crisp. Leaves on the tree are changing colour, ready to fall onto the ground below. Autumn is definitely upon us, and as we near the end of October, Halloween is also fast approaching us all. The time of year when confronted with ghosts, ghouls and other scary creatures.

October 31st; Halloween a time to be frightened. But when living with a condition like FND you are forced to contend with fears every day. Photo by **Александар Цветановић** from **Pexels**

A season that encourages us all to scare and be scared. Perhaps, the only one time of the year that we enjoy feeling frightened and in fear of everything spooky and supernatural.

Illness Makes You Afraid

When living with a neurological disorder like FND can be frightening and overwhelming. Unfortunately, the fear and anxiety of living with such conditions are permanent; not only for one night of the year like Halloween. Fear and anxiety yet another symptom of living with a chronic illness and ones which we don’t enjoy.

"When living with a neurological disorder like FND can be frightening and overwhelming. Unfortunately, the fear and anxiety of living with such conditions are permanent; not only for one night of the year like Halloween." Share on X

This list compiles 10 Things I'm Afraid Of Due To FND but in reality there are many more — Fear another symptom of living with a long-term health condition.

There are many fears that chronic illness can induce; fear of the future, fear of being a burden, fear of ending up alone, too name but a few.

Even from a young child, I have always been extraordinarily meek and nervous; picking up things to become afraid of came as easily as breathing. But recently, I have noticed that specific fears and anxieties became borne from living with FND. Perhaps those of you living with FND or other similar conditions will resonate with these fears. But if you don’t then consider this an education into the everyday neuroses of someone living with a neurological condition.

So here are the 10 things I’m afraid of due to FND.

10 Things I’m Afraid Of Due To FND

1) High Ceilings and Big Open Spaces

For as long as I can remember, I have had problems tolerating places that are big and open with high ceilings. Places including cinemas, large stores, museums and churches to name only a few. Part of the neurological disorder I live with includes issues involving the vestibular system. The vestibular system is the sensory system that largely contributes to the sense of balance and spatial orientation for coordinating movement with balance.

Damage or pathology of the system can induce vertigo, instability and loss of balance, and often accompanied by nausea. For those living with vestibular disorders, it can be tiring when attempting to sort out vision and balance signals. It can become even more difficult in busy and noisy environments such as large stores, crowded stadiums, in cinemas, or navigating busy, crowded streets.

"For those living with vestibular disorders, it can be tiring when attempting to sort out vision and balance signals. It can become even more difficult in busy and noisy environments…" Share on X

Such environments are challenging for a person with a vestibular disorder. It is difficult to rely on visual clues about balance and movement because everything is moving. The lighting isn’t ideal, and stable anchors such as walls are far away. And given that another of my symptom of FND includes trembling legs and so being so far away from walls or anything to hold onto is unnerving because of the fear of them giving way. It becomes more manageable, as a result, to avoid such places altogether.

2) Heights

It’s funny. I’ve never liked heights even from a very young age. I could never tolerate climbing frames or climbing up a slide in a playground. For years, I thought it was merely a phobia.

Balance is contingent upon not only the inner ear and vestibular system but also the eyes, sensors in the legs and feet. When the signals the brain receives from these systems ‘agree’, we feel balanced.

10 Things I'm Afraid of Due to FND: Heights — This would be unimaginable for a person living with vestibular issues when it causes dizziness and instability – not safe when up this high! Photo by Yeshi Kangrang on Unsplash

But sometimes the signals from these systems conflict. As we stand up high, for example, our eyes are unable to report the ground’s position accurately. It leads to the brain unable to receive accurate signals from the different systems, and not knowing which information to trust. As a result, we may feel dizzy, unstable and disorientated. FND already induces such symptoms, and so being up high feels like a very unsafe place to be.

3) Falls

No matter how many times I’ve experienced falls (which is a lot), I still have not got used to this regular occurring phenomenon of living with FND. They are unexpected, unpredictable, and most of all, it hurts. The consequences of such accidents leave its evidence on my body in the form of many bruises on various parts of my body.

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The fear of falling in public is the worst part of living with a neurological disorder. The stares of people, even the well-meaning offers of help make the situation so much worse. They can make us afraid; afraid of going out and becoming fearful of our own body.

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4) Rain

An indeed strange fear for someone living in a country where it doesn’t just rain, but it pours. But rain and especially heavy downpours is something that I have become to loathe, and often fear. But FND has unfortunately gifted me with the inability to shield myself from such surges. Forced to navigate the world with the aid of a crutch, I am unable to hold onto an umbrella at the same time. I have no choice but to withstand such conditions, becoming drenched as a result, with the wet clothes I am wearing sticking to my already cold skin. The cold and damp begins to seep into my bones, increasing the pain that already exists. Now, whenever I look out of the window, met with the sight of raindrops, my heart sinks, with going out an increasingly unwelcome prospect.

10 Things I'm Afraid Of Due To FND: Rain — The cold and wet rain bring increased pain and so becomes another thing to fear when living with chronic illness and chronic pain. Photo by Vlad Chețan from Pexels

5) Being Cold

I’m cold right now, but I’m also afraid of being so in the future. I’m a person who feels the cold effortlessly, which is ghastly when the chill increases the severity of chronic pain, which is already constant and often horrendous. Pain that seeps down into the bones can feel as the bones will crack with its unkindness. So Winter and the cold temperatures that it will inevitably bring becomes something else to fear.

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6) Queueing

No, I do not fear to queue because I am impatient and unwilling to wait my turn. The trembling in the legs is constant, severe and unpleasant even when walking. But the feeling is even more relentless when my body is quiet in motion — the feeling worse when standing still, such as when standing in a queue. The fear that they will collapse becomes very real, and so queueing becomes something to fear.

10 Things I'm Afraid Of Due To FND: Queuing — Waiting in a queue feels like a nightmare for someone living with constantly trembling legs!

7) Loss of Control

Another big fear of living with FND or any chronic illness is the fear that you have lost control over your own life. A fear that we have been forced out of the driving seat, replaced by the new diagnosis. The plans for the future, both short and long term now put into the future. From one day to the next, hell even one minute to the next we cannot predict how we will feel. Or what we are capable of, and so we fear that we will never regain control of our lives. A fear that we will become so lost within pain and illness, that it will become all we are.

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8) Going Out Alone

With the severity of my symptom, including trembling legs, constant dizziness, visual disturbances and unpredictable attacks of legs giving way, going out alone is not advisable. But there is also a fear of doing, so that holds me back. If my legs were to give way and left unable to get back up and I was on my own, then I would be left feeling scared and vulnerable. In the past, I have experienced episodes of losing my vision also. It can be frightening even in the presence of someone I know. I can only imagine the fear if it were to happen if alone. Sometimes even the thought of going out invokes fear.

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9) My World Shrinking

FND can take a lot. There have been so many losses because of the condition, and as it has made my world smaller. As my mobility worsens, I become limited by the places where I can go, or even get to and my world shrinking further as a result. And so I fear the increasing limitations that FND imposes and the likelihood that my world will begin to become smaller and smaller.

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10) The Unknown

10 Things I'm Afraid of Due To FND: The Unknown — Living with FND, or any chronic illness means that you are unable to see the road ahead; or what lies in the future. Worrying about getting worse or what else the disorder is going to wake from us next.

The biggest fear of living a neurological disorder like FND is the unknown. The condition itself is unpredictable. One which we never know when symptoms are next going to appear. And unable to predict what the disorder will take away from us next. Even from day to day, there is an unknown whether we will feel well or sick. Unpredictability becomes the norm, as illness wins, making it difficult to plan our days, our years or our lives.

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And a fear of the future, afraid of what will become of me if I end up alone. And how I will cope and manage with no help.

Well, that is my list of 10 Things I’m Afraid Of (Due to FND). What are you afraid of as a result of the condition you live with? I’d love to hear your own thoughts.

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A Chronic Illness Edition of Snakes & Ladders

September 8, 2019 2 Comments

Sheryl from A Chronic Voice, as well as sharing her own stories and lessons with chronic illness. Sheryl is an excellent support to other bloggers and writers living with illness and chronic pain. One such way is through monthly link-up parties whereby bloggers and writers share their stories through given prompts. This month, I will be musing on how this chronic life is very much like playing a continuous game of the classic board game ‘Snakes and Ladders.’

Life With Chronic Illness Is Like A Game of Snakes and Ladders

Do you sometimes feel that you are winning in life; landing on the bottom rung of a ladder, climbing further and further toward success and fulfilment. But only then for life to take a sudden downturn. Landing on a snake and forced to slide downwards toward despair.

Yes, life, and especially life with a chronic illness is much like a real-life version of snakes and ladders. The symptoms, like the snakes on the game board, lie in wait to ruin our lucky streak.

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Unfortunately, during recent weeks, I have been finding more snakes than ladders in my chronic edition of the classic board game.

When living with chronic illness, and its numerous symptoms that affect us it can feel like continually finding the snakes in a game of ‘Snakes & Ladders’

Once again, the weakness and trembling in the legs have become worse. I have been finding myself on the floor, again and again, after my legs give way with no warning. Living with a neurological disorder is continually finding new bruises but having no clue of where they have come from, or how we arrived to develop them.

As such, I am also finding a significant decrease in my self-confidence. The weakness, debilitating trembling and the falls have made me afraid of my own body; no longer confident in its ability to keep me safe and free from harm. Fear causes tentative steps toward the unknown, toward unpredictability. And it is never-knowing when my legs will next decide to collapse from under me suddenly.

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The Anxiety That Accompanies Illness and The Fear of What Could Be

Going out with trembling legs, aware of the unpredictability of such symptoms, and recognising that my legs could suddenly stop working at any moment causes anxiety. A consequence of living with a long-term and its symptoms is fear. Illness creates a fear of the unknown as well as a fear of what could happen.

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The knowledge that the ‘what could’ happen is very likely to happen but not knowing when can frighten. The unknown invokes anxiety when needing to leave the comfort zones we have built.

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Every Day Needing To Find Our New Limits

Time and time again, I have discussed how life with chronic illness never changes; every day feels like the day before. That living with chronic illness can feel like you are living your version of Groundhog Day. The truth is, however, that not every day is the same; symptoms can come or go, or they can remain stable or get worse. In regards to the symptoms that accompany the disorder with which we live, every day is a blank slate.

Able to do that thing today? No idea! Only by research can we tell our capabilities for the day ahead. Photo by Emily Morter on Unsplash

And as such, each day we wake, not knowing the limits or abilities that we possess, and the restraints that illness now poses. So every day requires researching what our body can handle and what we can and cannot do. Tentative and careful steps every morning as hasty research into the current levels of pain. Or the current rate of mobility. A ritual performed every day even with the dreaded knowledge that it could change within a blink of an eye. There is a relief when the research suggests low levels of pain and relatively good mobility. But on the days where the pain is crippling, and walking short distances is difficult, we face the day with dread and apprehension.

Inability To Enjoy ‘Dates’ When Suffering Disabling Symptoms

Living with such debilitating and limiting symptoms means that dating is on the last thing on my mind. And it even if it were, I often feel that nobody would be interested in me. I often feel like a burden and not good enough. Being stuck in the house the majority of my time, due to disabling symptoms, when I do go out, I like to think of the trips as ‘dates‘ from my prison cell.

Although I appreciate these ‘dates’, and the time away from home, I have been unfortunately struggling with them lately, not enjoying them as I once did. It is challenging to enjoy days out when legs are trembling so badly and feeling completely weak that they might collapse at any moment.

Being afraid and unsafe in your own body also makes you feel frightened and unsafe when venturing outside our comfort zone. Afraid that today will be the day when legs will give way and suffering a humiliating fall in public. It’s enough to make you want to stay inside the safety of our comfort zone where our ‘dates‘ can include watching a film on the sofa instead.

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Sometimes the only date that my fragile body and wobbly has the energy for, unfortunately!

And then there’s the overwhelming fatigue that such symptoms cause. The mere thought of going out even for a short while seems like being asked to climb Mount Everest. I was recently reading about the potential capabilities of energy recycling. A process where the energy that would otherwise be wasted and converting it into electricity or thermal energy -thereby enabling us all to reuse energy. It left me wishing that I could reuse lost energy which would allow me to do so much more than I can do currently.

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There May Be Snakes Now, But There Still Will Be Ladders Too

As I recount on the journey of living with a neurological disorder, there have been highs and lows. Unfortunately, like when living with any long-term health condition, the lows have outweighed the highs. In this life of ‘Snakes and Ladders,’ I continually seem to keep landing on the snakes, causing me to travel further from the place I want to be. Despite this, however, I know there will be ladders ahead, that will propel me forward and into the stratosphere (and success). Until then, I will have to continue rolling the dice and trying to avoid those dreaded snakes.

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